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We can’t afford to stay silent any longer

Is homosexuality an issue that needs to be addressed in your youth group? Many youth pastors will quickly respond “Yes, but I’m not sure how to talk about it!” Others may respond “No, that’s not a problem we have at our church.”

The sad truth is that homosexuality is not just an urban problem, or a San Francisco problem, or an “out there” problem – it is an issue for many wonderful young Christian men and woman who struggle with unwanted same-sex attractions. In fact, most people Exodus Youth helps are Christian students who love God and have unwanted same-sex attractions and are scared to death of anyone in their church finding out.

Let me ask an uncomfortable question – would a struggling student in your ministry feel safe disclosing their secret to you? Would they expect compassion and grace, or would gay jokes and attitudes of anger or disgust towards gays leave them fearful of being found out?

When speaking about homosexuality with your youth group, it is vital to speak the whole gospel, not just a Biblical prohibition. The Bible does not stop with condemning homosexual acts as sin, but goes on to express God’s deep love for homosexual sinners and His power to save and transform their lives.

For 30 years, Exodus has proved the truth of 1 Corinthians 6:11 (that the gospel brings freedom from homosexuality) as thousands have overcome homosexuality and moved on to lives of holiness and fruitful service to Christ.

Several years ago, as a campus minister, I was faced with the decision of how to respond to a young man in my church who told me through tears that he thought he might be gay. I felt confused, upset, and sad all at the same time. I wasn’t sure how to respond. Then I remembered how during His days ministering in the towns and cities of Israel, Jesus was known (often with disdain) as a friend of tax collectors, prostitutes, and other sinners. I believe that He calls us today to follow this example of radical compassion for sinners and outcasts, including those dealing with homosexuality.

Exodus will be an important resource as you minister to youth who struggle with same-sex attractions. Our local member ministries can provide speakers to share their testimony of overcoming homosexuality, counselors or mentors to meet with you and the youth, and support groups for them. We can also provide books and other resources for you, the youth, and their parents.

May God give you grace and wisdom as you reach out to these precious young people.

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