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Written by: Exodus Youth | December 11th, 2007You may be surprised to learn that there are a lot of people out there just like you, who struggle with same-sex attractions and/or gender identity, but aren’t going with the flow. If you’d like to talk to someone who understands, and can maybe even help a little, check out these resources.
. Exodus International has over 200 Member Agencies around the country that offer varying services (counseling, support groups, pastoral care) to people struggling with these issues, and those who love someone who does.
Several of our ministries and counselors offer too – check out all the options at Exodus’ main page.
. Exodus has been working for the past few years to band together with local churches committed to being safe, life-affirming places for people who struggle with previously “taboo” issues. These churches may not have a ministry specific to SSA-strugglers, but they are a welcoming place where you don’t have to be afraid to share what you’re going through.
Online Support Forums – Find a safe, positive online community where you can anonymously ask questions, submit prayer requests, and connect with people who understand.
ReachTruth.com – A web based mentorship program. Definitely check this one out!
Hope for the Heart – A toll-free crisis hotline with wonderful people who are ready to talk with you when you just need someone to be there. They don’t specialize in homosexuality, but are great when you just need someone to talk to.
Resources – The Exodus Bookstore has the most comprehensive collection of Christian books, videos and curriculum devoted to this topic.
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July 18th, 2009 at 10:22 pm
Ok, I didn’t really know where to ask this, but what exactly is the forum thing with word press, im a little confused.
July 21st, 2009 at 6:39 pm
you’re probably thinking of the LivingHope forums. The direct link is http://www.forums.livehope.org
I joined the forums five years ago and I still find myself encouraged by them. Its a safe place where you can share your heart and get good support.
August 14th, 2009 at 12:29 am
this may sound very random but im just a random guy however i am honest and blunt so here goes…im 18 and have struggled with this since i was 13 at first it was a curiosity that i thought would go away BUT it continues to plague me to this day and ive acted on it quick frequently with alot of guys of course this always left me empty and i grew up in church so ive always known it was wrong but i couldnt stop myself i finally got saved bout 8 months ago it was difficult but ive come out of the gay bars and havnt had sex in bout 4 months i just wanna be normal and changed i have a great bunch of people who love and support me my family especially cause they mourned after i came out at 15 and then cried my eyes at the alter when i got saved i know i have people who care about me and i know im loved but im still being harassed and at times wanna go back to my old ways i dont wanna lse everything ive gained back though and the hopelessness was killing me i want to be free and i hear these stories about people getting freed from it then i see where they went back and it makes me think is change actually possible? so please offer some encouragement i think sometimes i struggle with it STILL because its an unforgiveable sin or because Gods left me because i knowingly sinned i want one thing with my body yet my conscience and spirit wants the other thank you
November 1st, 2009 at 2:38 am
i’m a teenage young man, and i’m also struggling with
homosexuality. I’ve slowly drifted away from God this past year and
it seems that i have gone so far, that going back is impossible. I
feel hopeless. Sometimes I feel encouraged, promising God that i
will change, but when temptation comes, i always end up losing the
battle against temptation. I’m afraid that this temptation has
become a decisive factor in my salvation. I want to live with God
for eternity and so please help me to get back to the right path.
November 1st, 2009 at 9:07 am
Dear NOTW14
I know full well what you’re going through. The struggle against homosexuality can be very hard on us in our youth especially as the world constantly tells us we are born that way and cannot change. I remember being in highschool, Bible Club president and not knowing anyone I could turn to. There are some places you can find help however.
you can find help at the Living Hope Forums which offer help specifically to youth. Its online and anonymous. the link is http://www.forums.livehope.org
you can also find online mentoring and help at http://www.ReachTruth.com
or you can also do the “Door of Hope” course on SettingCaptivesFree.com
If you can, tell your family and seek a Christian counselor who can help you overcome your same gender attractions.
on a side note however, I want to encourage you that God’s grace is much bigger than we can understand. Struggling with homosexuality doesnt mean you aren’t saved or going to heaven. Struggling with homosexuality just means we are human and are prone to sin. Homosexuality is no greater than any other sin. Our struggle with same gender attractions is no different than our brother’s struggle with controlling his urges for women. we must both die to ourselves and obey God’s plan for sexuality.
November 2nd, 2009 at 2:21 am
Thanx. its really encouraging to know that i’m not alone.